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The Daphne Statues at Northerly Island, Chicago

Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the Dance, said he,
And I’ll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I’ll lead you all in the Dance, said he.

The Trinity made sense to me after the first time I sang this hymn in church a few years ago. Instead of all of the theological and philosophical arguments about  Homo Ousion (same substance) vs. Homoi Ousion (like substance) or hypostasis (one person, 3 substances or elements). (Remember I was a theology major.) Then there’s the simplistic way of thinking of Godde as ice that has 3 different forms, but I’m not seven years old anymore. This song made the Trinity real to me as an adult. All dancers are connected and separate. All are dancing in harmony, but not necessarily the same steps. In couples dancing, one of the partners normally leads. In line and circle dances no one leads, and if you don’t know how to do the dance, you just join in. People teach you the steps as you go.

I was reminded of this realization while reading Cynthia Bourgeault’s The Wisdom of Jesus as she explained how scholars and mystics from an early Eastern branch of the church, the Cappadocians viewed the Trinity. They called the relationship between the Trinity perichoresis, which Bourgault reminds us means “the dance around.”

One of the arguments that is made for male headship is that someone has to have the last word. There has to be a leader when an agreement can’t be made. They picture that is how the Trinity works too with Godde the Father being at the top of the totem pole. They use what is known as the Kenosis (Self-emptying) Hymn from Philippians 2:5-11 to subordinate Jesus the Son to Godde the Father, not just for his earthly life but for all of eternity.

Have this attitude, which was also in Christ Jesus:
who, being in the form of Godde,
didn’t consider equality with Godde
a thing to be grasped,
but emptied herself,
taking the form of a bondservant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in human form,
he humbled himself,
becoming obedient to death,
even death on a cross.
So Godde also highly exalted him,
and gave to him the name
above every name;
that at the name of Jesus
every knee should bow,
of those in heaven, those on earth,
and those under the earth,
and that every tongue should confess that
Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of Godde the Mother (Philippians 2:5-11, DFV).

Complementarians take this self-emptying act of love (kenosis), and use it to eternally subordinate Jesus to the Father in order to keep women eternally subordinated to men. But as Bourgeault reminds us the Cappadocian writers and mystics interpreted these verses very differently:

They saw it as an outpouring of love: from Father to Son, from Son to Spirit, from Spirit back to the Father. And the word used to describe these mutual outpourings is the same word that we’ve been looking at—kenosis.

The Trinity, understood in a wisdom sense, is really an icon of self-emptying love. The three persons go round and round like buckets on a watermill, constantly overspilling into one another. And as they do so, the mill turns and the energy of love becomes manifest and accessible. The Cappadocians called this complete intercirculation of love perichoresis, which literally means ‘the dance around.’ Their wonderful and profound insight is that God reveals his own innermost nature through a continuous round dance of self-emptying (p. 72).

Now I know my metaphor is not perfect. As I said before there are couple dances where one partner, usually the man, leads. But couple dances aren’t the only dances. One of the first dances I learned was in grade school: square dancing, where none of the dancers lead, but there is a step caller. I grew up in Oklahoma and danced couple dances like the two-step and waltz, but we also line danced (Cotton Eye Joe is my favorite). Like the round dances Bourgeault mentions, line dances do not have leaders. Dancers line up, sometimes they join hands or put their arms around each other, and they dance in step listening to the music, everyone doing their thing. If someone who doesn’t know how to dance wants to join, room is made, and the steps are shown. There is room for everyone, no one has to lead and no one has to follow.

Not only do I see this as a wonderful way to look at the Trinity but also at the church. Only with the church I would go with square dancing. Of course then the Trinity, Godde the Father and Mother, Jesus the Son (or Lord of the Dance), and the Holy Spirit are calling the steps. But the dancers—male and female—are on mutual ground dancing and weaving in and out of one another. When someone wants to join the dance, we make room and show them the steps as Godde leads.

The Trinity and the church, particularly church leadership, does not need to be a hierarchy to keep things under control. We don’t have to be good, little soldiers falling in line when the General commands it. We can be dancers going hand from hand, swirling each other around, dancing do si dos, weaving in and out of each other following the Lord of the Dance and listening to the calling of the Spirit.

“Lord of the Dance” by Sydney Carter

I danced in the morning
When the world was begun,
And I danced in the moon
And the stars and the sun,
And I came down from heaven
And I danced on the earth,
At Bethlehem
I had my birth.

Chorus: Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the Dance, said he,
And I’ll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I’ll lead you all in the Dance, said he.

I danced for the scribe
And the pharisee,
But they would not dance
And they wouldn’t follow me.
I danced for the fishermen,
For James and John -
They came with me
And the Dance went on.

Chorus

I danced on the Sabbath
And I cured the lame;
The holy people
Said it was a shame.
They whipped and they stripped
And they hung me on high,
And they left me there
On a Cross to die.

Chorus

I danced on a Friday
When the sky turned black -
It’s hard to dance
With the devil on your back.
They buried my body
And they thought I’d gone,
But I am the Dance,
And I still go on.

Chorus

They cut me down
And I leapt up high;
I am the life
That’ll never, never die;
I’ll live in you
If you’ll live in me -
I am the Lord
Of the Dance, said he.

Chorus

 

I didn’t write this post, but when I found out about Iron Sky Woman, I had to re-post what Heidi Shott wrote about her for Lent Madness. Here is another godly warrior woman who did what she needed to do to protect her family (just like Deborah and Jael). Yes, my wonderful readers, you need to know about this woman.

Iron Sky Woman was married to Enmegahbowh, an Episcopal priest, and they did mission work work in Minnesota Iron Sky Woman’s people:

There he met an Episcopal priest, Ezekiel Gear, who gifted him with a Book of Common Prayer. Before long the course of his journey was set toward ministry and service to his people.

But given the wide expanse of his heart, he honored and protected not only his people, but all people. Fast forward 17 years to the mission of St. Columba’s where he served as deacon. In 1862, Indian uprisings surged across the state.  Church historian Theodore Holcombe wrote of that period, “Enmegahbowh was a tower of strength to the Indian mission in all its years of trial and danger, and it was through his courage and bravery in warning the white settlers that a terrible massacre [of whites and native people] was averted.”

While this is widely known, it’s less known that Chief Hole-in-the-Day II – Enmegahbowh’s brother by adoption and Iron Sky Woman’s cousin – initiated the collusion between several tribal leaders that would have wiped out the white settlement. Hole-in-the-Day II’s displeasure with Enmegahbowh for thwarting his plans was made manifest when he sent two tribal members to his house to kill him.

According to Holcombe’s 1903 account, the assassins arrived about 9:00 am. Although he had been warned and was expecting them, Enmegahbowh’s conscience did not permit him to handle firearms. However in this instance, “he stretched a point, and loaded his double-barrel gun, and gave it to his wife who was known to be a good shot, and who had asked him to let her take the matter into her own hands.”

Iron Sky Woman threw open the door as they approached and shouted: “I know what you have come for, but the first one who shows a weapon, I will shoot down like a dog.”

Holcombe continued,

“They knew her reputation as a woman of spirit, and skill with the gun, and at once abandoned their design, and made her a present. These same Indians confessed they had been sent by Hole-in-the-Day, and acknowledged that Enmegahbowh had not only saved the whites, but also the Indians also from being all destroyed by the government, so there was cause for mutual congratulations.”

Iron Sky Woman thank you for giving me one more confirmation that you can be a Christian and do whatever is needed to protect your loved ones and still obey Godde.

 

Happy St. Patrick’s Day! I posted this last year, and it is still one of my favorite versions of St. Patrick’s Breastplate.

This is an old Irish prayer attributed to St. Patrick, and it is one of my favorite prayers. It is also known as “The Deer’s Cry.” I recommend that you follow Angelinasings on YouTube. She has a wonderful voice. The lyrics for the breastplate follow the video. Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

I arise today
Through a mighty strength, the invocation of the Trinity,
Through the belief in the threeness,
Through confession of the oneness
Of the Creator of Creation.
I arise today
Through the strength of Christ’s birth with his baptism,
Through the strength of his crucifixion with his burial,
Through the strength of his resurrection with his ascension,
Through the strength of his descent for the judgment of Doom.
I arise today
Through the strength of the love of Cherubim,
In obedience of angels,
In the service of archangels,
In hope of resurrection to meet with reward,
In prayers of patriarchs,
In predictions of prophets,
In preaching of apostles,
In faith of confessors,
In innocence of holy virgins,
In deeds of righteous men.
I arise today
Through the strength of heaven:
Light of sun,
Radiance of moon,
Splendor of fire,
Speed of lightning,
Swiftness of wind,
Depth of sea,
Stability of earth,
Firmness of rock.
I arise today
Through God’s strength to pilot me:
God’s might to uphold me,
God’s wisdom to guide me,
God’s eye to look before me,
God’s ear to hear me,
God’s word to speak for me,
God’s hand to guard me,
God’s way to lie before me,
God’s shield to protect me,
God’s host to save me
From snares of devils,
From temptations of vices,
From everyone who shall wish me ill,
Afar and anear,
Alone and in multitude.
I summon today all these powers between me and those evils,
Against every cruel merciless power that may oppose my body and soul,
Against incantations of false prophets,
Against black laws of pagandom
Against false laws of heretics,
Against craft of idolatry,
Against spells of witches and smiths and wizards,
Against every knowledge that corrupts man’s body and soul.
Christ to shield me today
Against poison, against burning,
Against drowning, against wounding,
So that there may come to me abundance of reward.
Christ with me, Christ before me, Christ behind me,
Christ in me, Christ beneath me, Christ above me,
Christ on my right, Christ on my left,
Christ when I lie down, Christ when I sit down, Christ when I arise,
Christ in the heart of every man who thinks of me,
Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me,
Christ in every eye that sees me,
Christ in every ear that hears me.
I arise today
Through a mighty strength, the invocation of the Trinity,
Through belief in the threeness,
Through confession of the oneness,
Of the Creator of Creation.
(From Wikipedia)
 

Aquila and Priscilla

Anyone who’s read 1 Corinthians 7 knows that the Apostle Paul was not a big fan of marriage, and thought it should be avoided if at all possible. Here are a few of his thoughts on marriage:

Now about what you wrote: “It’s good for people not to touch each other.” But because of promiscuity, everyone should have their own spouse. Spouses should fulfill their duty to each other. Committed people don’t have authority over their own bodies, but their spouses do. Don’t deprive each other, except by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to [fasting and] prayer, and then come together again so the Satan won’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a precept. I actually wish that all people were like me. But everyone has their own gift from Godde; one has this and another has that.

I say to the single and widowed, it’s good for them if they remain like me. But if they don’t have self-control, they should marry, because it’s better to marry than to burn with passion. (1 Corinthians 7:1-9, DFV)

But I want you to be carefree. Whoever isn’t married cares about the Lady’s business, how they may please the Lady; but whoever is married cares about the things of the world, how they may please their spouse, and they’re distracted. The single or celibate person cares about the Lady’s business, so that they may be holy both in body and in spirit. But whoever is married cares about worldly business, how they may please their spouse (1 Corinthians 7:32-34, DFV).

Ah Paul, you old curmudgeon. The thing I hate the most about his allowance to marriage is that  he doesn’t even use his own Jewish tradition to defend marriage. He says, “Well, OK, if you’re going to screw anything with two legs then get married, but you really should be a curmudgeonly celibate single like me. And if you stay single and celibate you’ll be a better Christian because you won’t have those distractions married people have. They can’t serve Godde like we can.” (Disclaimer: I was single for 36 years and loved it–thought for awhile I might not marry–now I am married. I LOVE being married. I’ve been happy on both sides of the fence.)

Here is what Paul’s defense of marriage should have looked like:

Dear sister and brother, remember why our Godde created marriage in the first place. In the beginning…

Sophia-Yahweh said, “It is not good for the human to be alone. I will make it a power equal to it.”

Sophia-Yahweh caused the human to fall into a deep sleep. As the human slept, Godde took one of its ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. Sophia-Yahweh made a woman from the rib which was taken from the man, and brought her to the man. The man said, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh. She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken out of man.” Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh (Genesis 2:18, 21-24, adapted from the World English Bible).

So you see dear sisters and brothers in Corinth, it is fine if you want to stay single, but marriage is Godde-ordained as well. Godde made marriage because it was not good for the human to be alone. Now the communion does not have to be marriage–that’s why Jesus had disciples. It is not good for us to be alone, which is why we need both marriage and community. We can’t make it though this life alone. Both marriage and celibacy have their place in the world and in the community. Some will stay single like me. Most will marry like Peter and his wife (1 Corinthians 9:5), Priscilla and Aquila (Acts 18:2), and Andronicus and Junia (Romans 16:7). Both celibates and couples can serve Godde and bring Godde’s kingdom into the here and now by loving each other, loving the stranger, and showing the world around us that life can be different.

That’s what Paul should’ve said to the Corinthians.

Crossposted at The Christian Godde Project.

 

Today is the feast day of one of the few married woman saints: Frances of Rome. I found it highly ironic and funny that this was today’s Epistle reading in The Book of Common Prayer:

Now about what you wrote: “It’s good for people not to touch each other.” But because of promiscuity, everyone should have their own spouse. Spouses should fulfill their duty to each other. Committed people don’t have authority over their own bodies, but their spouses do. Don’t deprive each other, except by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to [fasting and] prayer, and then come together again so the Satan won’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a precept. I actually wish that all people were like me. But everyone has their own gift from Godde; one has this and another has that.

I say to the single and widowed, it’s good for them if they remain like me. But if they don’t have self-control, they should marry, because it’s better to marry than to burn with passion. (1 Corinthians 7:1-9, DFV)

Aah Paul, you old curmudgeon. The thing I hate the most about his allowance to marriage is that  he doesn’t even use his own Jewish tradition to defend marriage. He says, “Well, OK, if you’re going to screw anything with two legs then get married, but you really should be a curmudgeonly celibate single like me.” (Disclaimer: I was single for 36 years and loved it–thought for awhile I might not marry–now I am married. I LOVE being married. I’ve been happy on both sides of the fence.)

Here is what Paul’s defense of marriage should have looked like:

Aquila and Priscilla

Remember why our Godde created marriage in the first place. In the beginning…

Sophia-Yahweh said, “It is not good for the human to be alone. I will make it a power equal to it.”

Sophia-Yahweh caused the human to fall into a deep sleep. As the human slept, Godde took one of its ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. Sophia-Yahweh made a woman from the rib which was taken from the man, and brought her to the man. The man said, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh. She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken out of man.” Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh (Genesis 2:18, 21-24, adapted from the World English Bible).

So you see dear sisters and brothers in Corinth, it is fine if you want to stay single, but marriage is Godde-ordained as well. Godde made marriage because it was not good for the human to be alone. Now the communion does not have to be marriage–that’s why Jesus had disciples. It is not good for us to be alone, which is why we need both marriage and community. We can’t make it though this life alone. Both marriage and celibacy have their place in the world and in the community. Some will stay single like me. Most will marry like Peter and his wife (1 Corinthians 9:5), Priscilla and Aquila (Acts 18:2), and Andronicus and Junia (Romans 16:7). Both celibates and couples can serve Godde and bring Godde’s kingdom into the here and now by loving each other, loving the stranger, and showing the world around us that life can be different.

That’s what Paul should’ve said to the Corinthians.

Saint Frances is the perfect example of this vision of the Christian life and marriage. She lived what Paul should have said.

Saint Frances of Rome

Saint Frances ministering in her house and church

I am used to seeing medieval women saints as nuns. Either they are single or a widow. I was delighted a few years ago when I discovered a married woman saint who lived during the 14th century. March 9 is the feast day of St. Frances of Rome who was a Benedictine oblate. She was also married. An oblate is a lay person who is connected to a Benedictine community and observes The Rule of St. Benedict in their daily life at home and work. St. Frances founded a lay congregation of women called the Oblates of Mary; they were attached to the church of Santa Maria Nova in Rome. The order she founded is now known as the Oblates of Saint Frances of Rome. In this period of Christianity there were nuns who chose God’s highest calling and wives who settled for marriage. Rarely have I read of a woman who was both a contemplative and wife. Not to mention a saint. And she didn’t settle. She obeyed Godde’s calling for her life right where she was in her marriage and home.

After her marriage, [Frances] continued an intense spiritual life of reading, prayer and visiting churches . . . she built a chapel in their palace, visited the sick, gave alms to the poor, and nursed patients in the hospital of Santo Spiritu. The tension she experienced in trying to combine intense devotions with the life of a wealthy Roman matron resulted in a breakdown. After a year of suffering, she was miraculously healed by a vision of St. Alexis.

From this crisis, Frances learned how to offer the three always interwoven threads of her life to God: first her family life, including her children, household duties, and role as wife. Second her civic life of healer, spiritual director, organizer of almsgiving and charity for the poor of Rome. Finally, her spiritual life with its liturgical and mystical experiences. Interweaving these three threads is characteristic of Benedictine spirituality: just as the Rule counsels the monk to take his brothers into account in every aspect of his life in the monastery, so Frances continuously responded to her family and her city. Like a monk who finds in the enclosure of the monastery not a prison, but a home, she created a sphere of inner freedom within the confines of this dense community.

. . . [After the death of her mother-in-law], the family unanimously chose Frances to run the household. . . She was seventeen. . . She was thus in charge of a large, wealthy Roman estate, supervising servants and overseeing kitchens, food purchases and harvests. Because of their political sympathies, the family figured prominently as a center for papal support in Rome, and she was in charge of the entertaining associated with their role in the drama of the divided papacy…

Frances longed attracted the attention of women who wanted to give their time, wealth, and energy to the sick and the poor. Now they approached her asking her to give institutional expression to their way of life. They were attracted to the Benedictine order. . . Characteristic of their freedom, the oblates could live either in community or in their homes. . . .The women who followed this path did so freely, unlike the medieval children entrusted as oblates who were unable to choose for themselves. However, like the child oblates, they brought with them monetary funds to build up the common good. (From Benedict in the World, Portraits of Monastic Oblates quoted in Benedictine Daily Prayer.)

You can find out more about from St. Frances at Catholic.org and Wikipedia.

Lord God, in Saint Frances you have given us a rare model of both married and religious life. Teach us to serve you with constancy so that we may be able to see and follow you in all circumstances of our daily existence. Amen.

 

 

Revkjarla writes to us this week:

This Friday-Saturday is our annual Women’s Retreat at my church. It’s one of my favorite 24 hours of the year, because we enjoy each other, we laugh, we cry, we support each other..and all of that good stuff!

So, since I am in the WR mode, let’s talk about women in your life!

1. Name a woman author you very much love to read.

Just one? That’s not going to happen, but here are a few: Laura Ingalls Wilder, Madeline L’Engle (Happy 50th Birthday A Wrinkle in Time!), Susan McKinley, Charlaine Harris, Maeve Binchy, and Louisa May Alcott. You did mean fiction right? Cause if we get into non-fiction….

2. Name a woman from the Bible with whom you would like to enjoy a nice long coffee talk.

Again–just one? Mary Mother of Jesus, Mary Magdalene, Abigail, Deborah, Phoebe, and Lydia.

3. Name a famous woman from history with whom you would like to have lunch.

Queen Elizabeth I

4. Name a living famous or infamous woman with whom you would like to go out to dinner.

Sandra Day O-Conner: I was 11 years old when she was appointed to the Supreme Court, and that’s when I knew girls could do more than I was told they could do. About the same time I was reading A Wrinkle in Time, and Meg showed me that girls could do more than I was being told too. Looking back it was an incredible intersection of fiction and life showing me I could be so much more than I had ever been told before (Wonder Woman was involved in these realizations as well). For more on how fiction has liberated me from traditional gender roles and stereotypes read Women and Fiction: Writing the World Right.

5. If you could be SuperWoman (o.k., I know you already ARE) what three special powers would you like to have?

Climb up walls like Spidey, Wonder Woman’s lasso, and to be able to see the Unseen Worlds all around us–to not just sense the Thin Places but walk through them.

 

Dr. Jann Aldredge-Clanton interviewed me for her Changing Church series. You can read the interview here. Jann’s Changing Church series highlights women in ministry, and how we are working to change how the church sees Godde and women. The blog series is a continuation of her recent book: Changing Church: Stories of Liberating Ministers. Jann has also done a lot of writing on the Divine Feminine, and I love the question on her website: “If God can include 3 persons, can’t God include 2 genders and more?” I highly recommend her books In Whose Image? God and Gender and In Search of the Christ-Sophia: An Inclusive Christology for Liberating Christians. You can find more information about her books here (she’s written several).

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