The Matriarchs of Israel

Bible study was excellent last night. All those years in religion classes and seminary, and the matriarchs were passed over. Never focused on–never part of the promise. But Disciple brings the matriarchs front and center: Sarah and Rebekah. God partners with them to realize his covenant promise. In God’s eyes they are not expendable as they are in the eyes of men–including their husbands. Abraham was not enough to begin the covenant people: Sarah was needed too. The son of promise had to come from both Abraham and Sarah. Abraham might think of Sarah as disposable (by giving her to two different kings), and Sarah might think she was expendable (by giving Hagar to Abraham), but God knew Sarah was vital for his plan of redemption.

Rebekah’s steps of faith and trust in God reflects Abraham’s faith and trust. She too leaves her country and goes to a land she does not know. Unlike Abraham, she leaves her family behind (whereas Abraham brings his), and makes the long journey to Canaan to be Isaac’s wife. When her hard and difficult pregnancy makes her wish she were dead, she goes to God directly to find out what is going on. What is happening to her? What does this mean? God answers her, and tells her she is bearing twins, two nations divided, and that the older brother would serve the younger. When the time came for Isaac to give his blessing, Rebekah was reading to make sure God’s will was done. For the first time I heard that what Rebekah did was right. She knew of God’s oracle–she knew that Jacob should receive the blessing. She partnered with God to make sure what he planned would happen, and she furthered the covenant promises. In doing so she became the mother Israel. No sin–only tenacious obedience to what she knew to be the will of God. I also want to look at Rachel and Leah differently too. They are matriarchs as well. Hopefully I will have much more to say about Sarah and Rebekah and about Rachel and Leah as well. I would also like to look at Hagar as a matriarch in her own right. She too had a son of promise, and God honored his covenant and commitment to her, even if Abraham and Sarah didn’t. I have just started reading about them and seeing them with new eyes. I am hoping for new revelations and new insights in the coming days.

Poetry: I Want These Things Written on My Body

Today seems like a good day for a poem. I hope you enjoy it.

“I want these things written on my body. We are the real countries.” –Katherine Clifford, The English Patient.

“I Want These Things Written on My Body”

Rolling curves, peaks and hills
Valleys, dips, rivers and seas
We are the real countries.
Curve of abdomen, peak of breast
Dip of waist, seas pooled in eyes
I am a country.
I want these things written on my body:
My love, my passion
That must protect those beloved.
My fear, my anger
Slow erosions of my soul.
Legend and myth well up from within
Artesian springs from imagination.
Life giving power pulsing deep within
A cave of great mystery, the womb.
I want these things written on my body:
That I loved and laughed,
But I also mourned and wept.
My anger led me to hate,
But grace led me to forgive.
That I longed for one to share my life with,
But I found contentment in solitude.
That although my womb would never conceive,
I brought forth and protected life.
Wave of hair, paths of the mind
Plain of the back, roll of the hip
I am a country.
Plains, plateaus and waterfalls
Rocky ledges, cliffs and springs
We are the real countries.

© 2005 Shawna Renee Bound

Jesus Camp?

Jesus Camp, a documentary film by directors Heidi Ewing and Rachael Grady opened nationwide on September 22. The film follows children through Becky Fisher’s “Kids on Fire Summer Camp” in North Dakota. According to the trailer, the camp is designed to make the children into an army of God in order to take back America for God. Included in this training the kids are taught: “There are two kinds of people in this world: people who love Jesus and people who don’t.” They are told, “This means war! This means war! Are you a part of it or not?” They pray for President Bush by laying hands on a life-size cardboard figure of him. A young boy affirms, “We are being trained to be God’s army.” Holy war dominates the theology of this camp. One of the most disturbing things Becky Fisher says in the trailer is this:

Where should we be putting in our efforts? Where should we be putting our focus? I’ll tell you where our enemies are putting it, they’re putting it on the kids. They’re going into the schools. You go into Palestine, and I can take you to some websites that will absolutely shake you to your foundations and show you photographs of where they’re taking their kids to camps like we take our kids to Bible camps, and they’re putting hand grenades in their hands, they’re teaching them how to put on bomb belts, they’re teaching them how to use rifles, they’re teaching how to use machine guns; it’s no wonder, with that kind of intense training that [garbled], that those young people are ready to kill themselves for the cause of Islam.

I want to see young people who are as committed to the cause of Jesus Christ as the young people are to the cause of Islam. I want to see them as radically laying down their lives for the gospel as, as they are, uh, over in, in Pakistan, in, in Israel, and, and Palestine, and all those different places. You know, because we have… excuse me, but we have the truth!

I’ve recently finished reading Brian McLaren’s The Secret Message of Jesus. In chapter four he writes:

Jesus says again and again, this kingdom advances with neither violence nor bloodshed, with neither hatred nor revenge. It is not just another one of the kingdoms of this world. No, this kingdom advances slowly, quietly, under the surface–like yeast in dough, like seed in soil. It advances with faith: when people believe it is true, it becomes true. And it advances with reconciling, forgiving love: when people love strangers and enemies, the kingdom gains ground (p. 32).

Jesus also said that he came to gather sheep from many flocks (John 10:16). Unlike the Jews of his time, Jesus did not see those who belonged to Yahweh and those who did not. He believed God’s grace and love was for everyone: the poor, prostitutes, tax collectors, Samaritans, and Gentiles. He also commanded his followers to love their enemies, pray for them, and to turn the other cheek. In the face of violence he commanded us to love and to show our enemies a different way to live. Paul also counseled the Roman believers to not return evil for evil and to live in peace.

As we have seen since September 11, 2001, violence is not the answer. Violence only begets more violence and hatred. Jesus commands his followers to respond by submitting to the violence and loving in the midst of it. We are a part of the kingdom of God, which means we are called to act and live differently than the kingdoms of this world. Instead of training our children to be soldiers, we should be training them to be peacemakers. We should be telling them that Jesus loves everyone–not just those who love him back, and that Jesus wants us to show love and forgiveness, and be reconciled to our enemies–not fight with them and constantly be at war (even spiritual war) with them. Jesus did not treat outsiders or his enemies this way, and neither should we.

Starting Over?

I heard something lately that I have never thought of before. If you’re in church long enough, you inevitably hear someone say, “Why doesn’t God start over?” He did, and it didn’t work.

God started over with Noah. After Adam and Eve disobeyed God, and they were cast out of the garden of Eden, things went downhill from there. Cain killed Abel, Lamech killed men for hurting him. Humanity quickly spiraled out of control in disobedience, arrogance, and wickedness. Humanity’s drive to be like God had driven it to so much sinful disobedience that God was disappointed that he even created humankind. But Noah was blameless and righteous. He was in a right relationship with God. He obeyed and was humble. Noah was the new Adam. God started over with the flood. He saved Noah and his family and wiped out the rest of humanity. Creation was indespensable because of our sin. God started over with a fresh slate, with a blameless and righteous man.

Then Noah planted a vineyard and made wine. Then he became the first person to get drunk. Canaan saw him passed out naked and did nothing. Shem and Jephteth covered him. Noah cursed Canaan. Then Babel. The descendents of Noah want to make a name for themselves. The arrogance was back. Once again humanity was determined to be like God. God gave them different languages. Starting over did not work.

Babel shows that starting over is not enough. The problem was deeper than that. Something more drastic needed to be done. Sin had become too persistent and insidious—it had to be dealt with another way. At the end of Genesis 11 God is not satisfied with the redemption of humanity. He is once again disappointed. God’s answer will be to call Abraham and his descendents Israel, and through them, he will reverse the curse of Genesis 3—11. When that didn’t work, God would take the most drastic action available: he would become one of us. In the death and resurrection of Christ, the curse of Genesis is finally reversed.

There are mantras that echo through the church: “Why doesn’t God start over?” “Why can’t he just take us to heaven and get it done and over with?” Because God has never given up on us. He has started over, and it didn’t work. Throughout the sin, arrogance, and disobedience, God comes to us again and again. He came to Adam and Eve. Cain. The people at Babel. He has always worked to reverse the curse that humanity brought on itself.

So what does that say about the church? What should we be doing? We definitely should drop the mantras that are so ungodlike. May be it’s time for us to act like God instead of wanting to be God.

Sermon: God Uses Harem Girls

“Who knows? Perhaps you have come to royal dignity for just such a time as this” (Esther 4:14). These classic words are from the book of Esther, and they come in the middle of a book of coincidences. Esther has always presented the problem that God is never mentioned; in fact, for that reason, Martin Luther did not want it included in the canon of Scripture. This is what Luther had to say about Esther: “I am so great an enemy to the second book of the Maccabees, and to Esther, that I wish they had not come to us at all, for they have too many heathen unnaturalities.” The whole book could be taken as nothing more than chance and luck. A literary tale of how a young Jewish orphan just happen to become queen and be in the right place at the right time to save her people. Or is there more to it than that?

The book begins on a whim of a king. King Ahasuerus had given a great banquet for all the leading officials and dignitaries of his kingdom. After much revelry, the king ordered for his queen, Vashti, to be brought before everyone, so he could show her off. Vashti refused. In a fit of drunken rage, Ahasuerus, for all intents and purposes divorced her to set an example that wives are to obey their husbands. After he sobered up and cooled down, he realized that he had no queen. The decree could not be changed so the search began for a new queen. All the beautiful young virgins in the provinces were brought into the harem, so that the next queen could be found. One of the virgins was Esther, a Jewish orphan who was being raised by her cousin Mordecai.

Esther was probably a teenager, no older than 16. She might have already been betrothed to a friend of the family. Ripped out of the only life she knew by the whim of an impulsive king, Esther began the one year of preparation for her one night with the king. She found favor with the Hegai, the eunuch who was in charge of the harem. But she was one of hundreds–one harem girl in the middle of harem that likely numbered in the 1000s. She would probably spend one night with the king then be sent to the house of the concubines where she would live out the rest of her life alone and with no purpose, unless the king called her again. When her night came Esther went to the king. And in the first coincidence of the book she found favor with Ahasuerus who made her queen.

Shortly after this coincidence number two happened: Mordecai found out about an assassination plot and warned Esther who told the king. The eunuchs planning the assassination were killed, and the incident was recorded. Later Haman rose to power and became the prime minister of the empire. He was second to the king. All of the king’s servants except Mordecai would bow when Haman entered the court. Infuriated that Mordecai would not worship him, Haman began a plot to kill, not only Mordecai, but his whole race, the Jews. Casting pur, or dice, to choose the day he would carry out his murderous plot, Haman received permission from the king to destroy the people whom he said would not obey the king and were trying to overthrow his authority.

The decree was sent to all the provinces and the Jews immediately began to mourn. Mordecai mourned in front of the king’s gate in sackcloth and ashes. Esther heard of it and sent clothes to him which he refused. She then asked what was wrong. He told her of the decree and urged her to go to the king and intercede for her people. Her first response was one of fear. Anyone who goes to the king without being called can be killed, and the king had not sent for her for thirty days. Because we are so well acquainted with the story, we just assume Esther is exaggerating, after all the king does accept her. But Esther really didn’t know that. This was the king who got rid of his first queen on a whim. This was the king who commanded the engineers of a bridge he was building be thrown off the end of the bridge when they fell behind due to a horrible storm. When a father requested this king not to send his last son off to war (he had lost his 3 other sons to this king’s war), the king commanded the last son be killed in front of the father, then had the father blinded so that was the last thing he saw. This was the king Esther was going to, without an invitation.

But Mordecai reminded her that her position as queen would not protect her from the edict, and if she chose not to act, deliverance for the Jews would arise from elsewhere. Then the prod: “Who knows? May be that is why you are here.” Who knows? May be this is why you are married to a pagan Gentile? May be this why all of these coincidences happened? Esther agreed and asked Mordecai to have the Jews of Susa fast for her, and she and her maids would also fast for three days, then she would go to the king–even if it cost her her life. She would do the right thing–she would appeal for the life of her people.

Ahasuerus had deposed the queen who did not come when she was summoned. What would he do with a queen who came when she had not been summoned? Once again Esther found favor with the king and requested that he and Haman attend a banquet which led into an invitation to a banquet the next day. But on his way home Haman saw Mordecai, and once again he was filled with rage at this Jew who would not worship him. Complaining of it at home, his family and friends suggested he build gallows and request Mordecai be hung on it the next day.

Now another coincidence happens: the king had insomnia. He commanded the book of the annals be brought to him and heard the re-telling of how Mordecai saved his life. After finding out that Mordecai had not been rewarded, Ahasuerus decided to reward him. Coincidently, at that moment, Haman entered the court. The king had him brought in and asked him what is to be done with the man the king wishes to honor. Thinking that the king could not possibly want to honor anyone but himself, Haman devises this elaborate show of putting the king’s clothes on the man, sitting him on a horse the king has ridden, setting a crown on his head, and walking through the streets proclaiming that this is what happens for the man whom the king wishes to honor. Ahasuerus loved the idea and ordered Haman to do this for Mordecai. Although Ahasuerus does not know it, he just saved the life of the man who saved his life earlier in the story. Haman did as he was commanded then ran home humiliated. While he was telling his family what had happened, the servants of the king come to escort him to Esther’s second banquet.

At this banquet Esther presented her case to the king. She pled for the life of her people whom Haman would have executed. On finding out Haman’s plot, the king left the room, and when he returned he found Haman on the queen’s couch pleading for his life. Ahasuerus accuses Haman of assaulting the queen, and in a wonderful twist of irony, Haman is taken away to be hung on the gallows he had built for Mordecai. Esther once again intercedes for her people, and a decree is issued that on the day of the intended massacre, the Jews can defend themselves and kill their enemies. But something happened before this day of defense. For the very first time my attention was drawn to the last part of the last verse in Esther 8. Esther 8:17 simply says, “And many among the peoples of the land became Jews, for the dread of the Jews had fallen on them” (NASB). Other people came into the people of God because of Esther’s decision to act to save her people at the cost of her own life. I am reminded of all the passages in Isaiah, Jeremiah, and Ezekiel where God tells the people one of the reasons He is sending them into exile for their sins is so that the nations will know that He is God. One of the results of all of these coincidences piling up is that “many among the peoples of the land”–the people of the nations, is that they see that the God of the Jews is God, and they respond by becoming part of the people of God. The festival that followed this day came to be known as Purim, and Esther is read every year during this feast. And once again we are reminded that this isn’t just for the ethnic Jews. In Esther 9:27 we read, “the Jews established and accepted as a custom for themselves and their descendants and all who joined them, that without fail they would continue to observe these two days every year, as it was written and at the time appointed.”

The thing that stands out most about Esther is the fact God is never mentioned. In fact any mention of God or religion is obviously missing from this book. If Esther is read historically and literally God can be left out all together. It is truly a book of coincidences. That is why we need Esther. To often we think that just because there is no obvious working of God in the world that God is not working. Esther’s discreet witness says otherwise.

And we need these reminders. We need reminders that God working in our world is not always obvious–even to those in the church. We also need reminders that God uses harem girls to accomplish His purposes. Sometimes God uses the small things, the little things, the things that could be easily overlooked to accomplish His purposes. Paul reflects this truth in some of my favorite verses in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 1:25-29: “For God’s foolishness is wiser than human wisdom, and God’s weakness is stronger than human strength. Consider your own call, brothers and sisters: not many of you were wise by human standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, things that are not, to reduce to nothing things that are, so that no one might boast in the presence of God.”

There are always those times in life when we wonder where God is. Esther reminds us that there are times that God is firmly behind the scenes, and we may not see how He has been working till well after what is taking place now. Part of our walk with God is realizing that God is with us regardless of circumstances or how we feel. The Jews had to have felt abandoned as they saw the decree that would take all of their lives. But seven years before they even realized they were going to need a deliverer, God had made sure a Jewish queen was in the palace. Even in the worst the world can throw at us, God continues to walk with us and provide ways of deliverance for His people. He walks with us through the messes as well as the celebrations.

The book of Esther seems to be driven by whims, accidents, and coincidence. But is it? The underlying, almost invisible, current running through Esther is that God is working His purposes out for the world–He can even use a harem girl and an arrogant, pagan king to do this. The book of coincidences is really a book of grace. In one of the most pagan places possible–the palace of a pagan king who does not even know that he has married a Jew, nor does he know that a decree has went out in his name to destroy his wife and her people, God is working.

One thing which Israel and later the Jews excelled at was their ability to see God at work in their world and in their history. There was no such thing as chance or coincidence. That is why Esther is in the canon. Although there is no explicit mention of God, the implication is that God is working behind the scenes, and He continues to do so right here and right now. I think this is the reason a Jewish philosopher disagreed with Martin Luther. Moses Maimonides said, “When Messiah comes, the other books [of the Bible] may pass away, but the Torah and Esther will abide forever.” In the Torah, the first five books of the Bible, God comes on Sinai with lightning and thunder, and everyone knows He is there. But Esther reminds us that’s not the only way God comes. Sometimes He comes and stays quietly behind the scenes working through harem girls.

But I Say: Love Your Enemies

My emotions have ran the gamut with the shooting at the Amish School in Pennsylvania. At first was the shock and horror, and then anger as yet again, girls were the target. And then I felt awe as the Amish embraced the family of the man who had slaughtered their daughters. It is very rare we see Christ in action–even from those of us who say we are part of his body: the church. When I look at the Amish community and see their actions, I see Christ. And I see what it means to be Christ in this world. I catch a glimpse of how the church is to be the body of Christ in this world.

Ben Witherington has an excellent evaluation and response to the Amish love, grace, and forgiveness in Lessons from the Amish—the Power of Pacifism.

God, make me more like the Amish. Make more like Christ. Amen.

Sermon: The Old Testament Says That?

I love the Old Testament or the Hebrew Scriptures for one simple reason: I love a good story. And over half of the Hebrew Scriptures is story or narrative. A lot of times we just look at the stories in the Hebrew Scriptures as straight history–this is what happened. We tend to view them with Dragnet eyes: “Just the facts, ma’am.” It’s one more history lesson to be put beside the Revolutionary War and the Civil Rights Movement. But that’s not why Israel remembered these stories as Scripture. The reason these stories have been kept and passed down through the generations for three millennia is not just to keep track of family or national history.

These stories were kept and passed down for two reasons: the first is to show what being in a relationship with God looked like in the everyday world. The second is to show what walking away from God into sin looked like in the everyday world. These stories have been remembered and passed on to visually show what living the 10 commandments looks like in the ordinary, everyday, messy world we call life. Stories are also easier to remember than a bunch of rules and regulations–so by putting the Torah into story form to show how it worked in everyday life, the Israelites made it easier for their children and succeeding generations to remember the right way to walk with God. Let me illustrate: how many of you know the laws which govern being a kinsman-redeemer in Leviticus? Anyone know those off the top of your head? Yeah, me either. In fact, I would need a concordance to find where the kinsman-redeemer regulations are in Leviticus. But how many of you know the story of Ruth? How many of you could tell the story off the top of your head? What was Boaz in the story of Ruth?

The story of Ruth is the first one I want to look at. We’re going to be looking at several biblical stories today that illustrate what we’ve been learning on the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5–7). We’ve been studying what is known as the antitheses–where Jesus said “You have heard it was said, but I say to you” (Matthew 5:21-48). These are the three I want to cover:

You have heard it was said to those of ancient times (notice Jesus does not say it was said in Scripture) “You shall not murder.” But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister you will be liable to judgment. You have heard it was said, “You shall not commit adultery.” But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. You have heard that it was said, “You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.” But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.

The two sayings of Jesus the book of Ruth illustrates are do not look on a woman in lust and love your enemy. Ruth has traveled to Bethlehem with Naomi because their husbands are dead, and Naomi wanted to return to her homeland of Israel. Ruth would not leave her and followed her. In order to feed them Ruth starts gleaning wheat in the fields that was left behind by the harvesters. She doesn’t know she’s in a field of a man who is a relative of Naomi. Boaz sees the new woman in the fields and wants to know who she is. He is told that she is the Moabite who returned with Naomi and is now gleaning wheat for them. She’s a hard worker–in Ruth 2:7 the servant tells Boaz, “She has been on her feet from early this morning until now, without resting even for a moment.” Ruth was a foreigner, a Moabite. Boaz was not obligated to let her glean his fields: he was only obligated to the children of Israel. Technically Ruth was part of the enemy–part of the nations that had harassed Israel and would for sometime. But Boaz treats her with dignity and respect: he tells her to only glean in his fields, and he orders his men not take advantage of her because she is a foreigner. His compassion surprises Ruth who says, “Why have I found favor in your sight, that you should take notice of me, when I am a foreigner?” But Boaz has heard Ruth’s story: how she left everything to follow Naomi and taker care of her. He looks past her nationality to the woman she really is. Not only does Boaz, not take advantage her of because she’s a foreigner, he makes sure no one in his employment does either. Boaz could have looked on this foreign woman with lust and did pretty much what he wanted to with her. But he didn’t. He did everything in his power to provide for both her and Naomi: he fed her at his table and gave her extra wheat to take home to Naomi.

When Ruth made it know that she and Naomi wanted him to act as a kinsman-redeemer by marrying Ruth and taking both her and Naomi into his house, he didn’t balk at marrying a woman who was technically his enemy. In fact, he took care of the matter the next day. There was a closer relative than Boaz, but that relative did not want to jeopardize his inheritance. Boaz married Ruth and fulfilled his obligations as a kinsman-redeemer to a foreign woman whose nation had been and would continue to be Israel’s enemy many times over. In this story we see that Boaz did not take lustful advantage of Ruth but treated her with dignity and respect, and he married her although she was from enemy territory.

The next story I want to look at is wholly about loving your enemy. It’s found in 2 Kings 6:8-23. Elisha is one of Israel’s finest and most powerful prophets. In this story he keeps telling the king of Israel where the king of Aram is going to set up camp and attack, so Israel can win. This hacks off the king of Aram who decides he’s going to get this prophet, so his plans stop being thwarted. He sends soldiers to find Elisha and seize him, so that Elisha would be a prophet for him instead of against him. The soldiers hunt Elisha down and surround the city he is in. Elisha’s servant sees the army and freaks out while Elisha prays for his eyes to be opened to see God’s army encircling them as well. Elisha then prays for the soldiers to be struck blind which happens. Then Elisha leads the soldiers of Aram to Samaria, Israel’s capital city. The king of Samaria wants to kill the enemy. But Elisha retorts in v. 22, “No! Did you capture with your sword and your bow those whom you want to kill? Set food and water before them so that they may eat and drink; and let them go to their master.” That’s what happens–the enemy who had come to kidnap Elisha and carry him off to Aram is fed and then let go to return to Aram. I love the last part of verse 23: for some strange reason “the Arameans no longer came raiding into the land of Israel.” Aram was no longer Israel’s enemy.

We’ve looked at two stories that positively illustrate what Jesus was teaching on the Sermon on the Mount–they’ve showed what it looks like when we obey God in our everyday, ordinary lives. We’ve looked at two of the three sayings we want to cover: Don’t commit adultery by not lusting and love your enemy. Now we’re going to look at the third–It’s not enough not to murder, but don’t be angry. But this time the person doesn’t obey; he chooses to sin, and anger, which is not dealt with but indulged, leads to murder. This story is found in Genesis 4. Cain and Abel are the sons of Adam and Eve. Cain is a farmer; Abel is a rancher. They both bring offerings to God: God accepts Abel’s and rejects Cain’s. Cain gets angry. God doesn’t let him sulk but says to him in verses 6-7, “Why are you angry, and why has your countenance fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is lurking at the door; its desire is for you, but you must master it.” I want you to notice something–Cain hasn’t sinned yet. He’s angry, but God tells him to deal with his anger before he sins. Which he could have done: he could have offered the right sacrifice and got on with life, but he didn’t. He stayed angry at God for rejecting his sacrifice. The only problem was is he couldn’t get his hands on God. But he could get his hands on God’s favorite: Abel. He leads Abel out to field and murders him giving into his anger. When God confronts Cain with his sin, he tries to pass it off, but God doesn’t let him. We find his punishment in verse 12, “When you till the ground, it will no longer yield to you its strength; you will be a fugitive and a wanderer on the earth.” God marked Cain so no one could kill him in revenge, but he would be a fugitive for the rest of his life for not dealing with his anger when he had a chance to.

The last two stories I want to look at deal with all three sayings we’ve been looking at. One shows what happens when the commands aren’t obeyed: lust leads to adultery which leads to murder. The other shows a man who chose to walk with God and obey Him although he would have been justified in indulging in anger, revenge, and murder. I like how both of these stories show how the commands intertwine around one another–how breaking one leads to breaking another, or how obeying one gives you the foundation for obeying the rest. They also show how these commands work in our everyday life in the messy world of reality.

The first story we’ll look at is the negative one: the man who chose to disobey God because he was king and thought he could do whatever he wanted and get away with it. This man was David, and he thought he could take another man’s wife and no one would be the wiser for it. The story is found in 2 Samuel 11–12. Instead of going with his men David stays in the palace. One night he gets up and goes for a walk on the palace roof where he sees a woman bathing. A note here–this was part of the culture. What was basically big barrels were kept on the roof to collect rainwater and then the people would bathe in them. Right then David should have turned around and walked away. But he didn’t and he noticed she was beautiful. Again he could have turned away and worked out his lust on one of his many wives or concubines, but he didn’t. Even after finding out she was the wife of one of his soldiers, whom he had sent out to war, he still commanded her to be brought to the palace. He committed adultery then sent her home thinking that would be the end of it. But Bathsheeba is pregnant. David calls her husband home in hopes he will sleep with her, and everyone will assume the baby is Uriah’s. But Uriah doesn’t cooperate: he will not sleep with his wife while his brothers are still fighting. So David gets him drunk and Uriah still doesn’t go home. David then sends him back to the frontline and has him murdered. And here is the greatest irony. Jesus said “You have heard it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you love your enemy.” Uriah wasn’t the enemy–he was the neighbor. He wasn’t just a soldier either. Uriah was one of David’s 30 mighty men–he was part of David’s inner circle. David took a friend’s wife then had him murdered to cover his own sin. If we choose to sin–one act of sin doesn’t stay one sin for long. It also affects everyone around us. One of the reasons this is one of my favorite biblical stories is it shows the corporate nature of sin: sin is never personal, and it’s never private. If we choose to sin, it will affect the lives of everyone around us. Look at the rest of 2 Samuel. Look at David’s children. A son rapes his daughter. Another son kills the rapist. That son then leads an insurrection against David tearing the country apart, and that son dies as well. I see this in my own family where my parent’s generation has quite a few alcoholics and my generation has drug addicts. Sin multiplies itself and it spreads. That’s why it has to be nipped in the bud while it’s temptation. That’s why it’s so important for us to walk away from temptation and do what God wants us to do. That’s why Jesus said it’s better to gouge out an eye or cut off a hand to keep from sinning. Once an act of sin is committed it will grow and multiply. David committed one act of sin he thought he could get away with, and look at what happened. The sad thing is all David had to do to avoid all of this was turn around and walk away.

David decided to walk in his own ways, but Joseph decided to walk in God’s ways. Joseph’s story is told in Genesis 37–50. If anyone had reason to give into hate and vengeance it was Joseph. Thrown into a pit and sold into captivity by his own brothers, he had good reason to hate them. After he arrived in Egypt he was sold to Potiphar. Things went well in Potiphar’s house. In fact Potiphar places Joseph over his household, and things are looking up for him. Until Potiphar’s wife sees him. She likes what she sees, and she decides she wants Joseph and goes after him. Joseph refused. But she kept on the offensive, and one day devised a plan to get him into her bed. She sent all the servants away so it would be just the two of them. When he came into the house she grabbed him and urged him to lie with her again. Joseph scrambled out his garment and ran out of the house. Potiphar’s wife decided that was the last time that slave would slight her, so she concocted a story of Joseph attempting to rape her. And for being an honest man who would not betray his master and sin against his God, Joseph was rewarded by being thrown in prison.

While in prison Joseph once again found favor in the warden’s eyes. He interpreted dreams for the king’s baker and winetaster, which both came true. And when Pharoah had a dream that disturbed him the winetaster remembered Joseph. Joseph interpreted the dream, and gave the Pharoah a plan that would keep Egypt from starving to death. In the seven years of plenty, food must be stockpiled for the seven years of famine. Pharoah made Joseph the second-in-command over Egypt and in charge of distributing the food during the famine.

The famine was not only in Egypt it was also in Israel. So Jacob sent Joseph’s brothers to Egypt for food. Joseph puts his brothers through a couple of tests to see if they were the same men who had sold him into slavery, and he sees their regret for what they did. He reveals himself to them, and he tells them not to be distressed for God had sent him ahead to preserve the family during this time of famine. Joseph had absolute power over his brothers. He could have commanded them to be jailed or killed. But he didn’t. He forgave them. He forgave his enemy–his family. Then he took care of them. He sent the brothers back to Israel to get Jacob and their families, and he arranged for them have land in Goshen, he provided food for them, and they lived under his protection.

In Genesis 50 after Jacob’s death the brothers once again feared that Joseph might seek the vengeance that was rightfully his to seek for what they did. They went to him with a story of Jacob wanting Joseph to forgive his brothers for the wrong they had done. Joseph once again reassured his brothers that he would not seek revenge. In verse 19 he tells them “Do not be afraid? Am I in the place of God?” He left vengeance in God’s hands. Once again he reminded his brothers that what they had done to harm him God had used to save many lives–including their family. And he reaffirmed his intention of taking care of their families and providing for them.

Joseph–a man who had the right to be angry and take revenge but didn’t. He gave his anger to God and followed God’s ways, no matter how hard it was or how much it cost him. He forgave his enemies–his brothers. He also kept his life pure by not sleeping with Potiphar’s wife when he had the chance. He was tempted to anger, to murder, and to adultery, and in each case he obeyed his God and did what was right.

I wonder as Jesus was saying these things if the people were thinking of these stories. When Jesus said, “You have hard it was said of those of ancient times, ‘You shall not murder.’ But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable to judgment” were they thinking, “Yeah remember Cain? He gave into his anger and became the first murderer”? When Jesus said, “You have heard it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart” were they thinking, “Too bad David didn’t heed that advice? That would have saved him a lot of heartbreak”? And when Jesus said “Love your enemy” did they think of Elisha and the Arameans or Joseph who forgave the worst kind of enemy of all: those who are close to us and betray us?

Jesus wasn’t telling the people anything they didn’t already know. He was just reminding them of their own stories and taking away all of the nonbiblical rules and regulations that had choked out the principles in these stories.

Just as Jesus reminded them of their story, he reminds us of our story. The story reminds us that God has always called his people to live differently than the world around them. Hate is replaced with love, lust with respect, and enemies with friends, spouses, and family.